Category: Relationships

  • Dr. Olu Akinkoye. Sir ‘Koye. Daddy Bodija aka Baba (Baba pronounced ray-ray) When I visited in May, something in me knew it was the last time I would see you. Yet, when the news came, three weeks ago today, almost to the hour, the finality hit Mee in ways that I was neither prepared for…

  • Before the Miracle: The Weight of Instruction

    “Grief is complicated, but sometimes, we invite it ourselves.”

  • There are moments that quietly redirect the course of our lives, not with grand gestures, but with simple words spoken at the right time. For me, that moment came in the year 2000, during one of the most uncertain seasons of my youth. I was standing at a crossroads, convinced I had lost my way.…

  • ✍🏽 Somewhere between “doing church” and “being Christ,” we lost the plot and the light. This week’s reflection isn’t for the faint of faith.It’s a gentle re-mind-er (and re-flect-ion) to Go(ye) beyond comfort, beyond cool, beyond churchian performance. Because salt doesn’t apologize for being salty,and light doesn’t dim to be polite. 💡✨ Read on. Reflect…

  • 🌱 A Career Is not Always Linear: A Tribute to the Class of 2025

    Sometimes, our paths choose us I was at Dreamforce 2025, and the energy in the room was absolutely contagious. Everywhere I turned, someone was demo-ing something: ideas, innovations, intentions. A huge lesson I learned in my sales career is that everyone of us sells something, and Dreamforce was no different. Everyone was selling something… but…

  • On World Mental Health Day and the quiet loneliness of being left out Friday, 10 October, was World Mental Health Day. I’ve had this date etched somewhere deep in my subconscious since 2005, the year I began working with an NGO focused on mental health advocacy. This year, as I reflected, I was reminded of how…

  • It’s July 1st 2025. Canada Day. Official start of Q3. First day of the 2nd half of 2025 – depending on who’s counting and how they count. It’s been a fortnight now that post-Covid-Mee made what I’d call a daredevil attempt to air the cobwebs of my beautiful mind out here in public, in the…

  • Countdown to Day Zero

    The author reflects on the transition into the second half of 2025 while grappling with the high cost of depression and the nuances of neurodivergence. They emphasize the importance of understanding different perspectives in human behavior and communication, advocating for empathy and deeper perception over judgment in interactions and personal reflections.